Chapter 1 of Communication Keys: How to Listen and Speak Don’t be so quick to take offense at something someone is saying. Instead, hear them out… The definition of offense is annoyance or resentment brought about by a perceived insult to or disregard for oneself, or one’s standards or principles. Listen to whoever is speaking…… Continue reading Listen – without Offense
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Listen – Without Speaking Until the Lord Prompts You to Speak
Chapter 5 emphasizes the importance of effective communication through active listening and minimizing interruptions. The author reflects on personal experiences with interruptions and rebukes from friends that led to improved listening skills. This shift not only enhanced the author’s relationships but also demonstrated the transformative power of patience and attentiveness in communication.
Speak – Faith not Fear
Chapter 10 emphasizes the importance of speaking faith over fear by relying on God’s promises. It encourages believers to memorize scripture and actively speak to their problems, trusting in God’s power. The chapter highlights that faith’s effectiveness stems not from its size, but from the believer’s conviction in God’s authority to overcome obstacles.
SPEAK – The Language of Hope
Chapter 11 emphasizes the importance of speaking the language of hope as believers. It highlights God’s ability to transform hopeless situations and encourages faith over fear. By focusing on the future glory promised to believers, individuals can share hope in their communications, inviting others to know Jesus amidst a world often filled with despair.
Speak – edification, comfort, faith – Not attack or judgment
Chapter 9 emphasizes the importance of how Christians communicate, urging against speaking judgment or attacks towards others, whether they are unbelievers or fellow believers. It stresses that love should guide interactions, highlighting that exposing sin is necessary but should be done without personal attacks to avoid alienating others from Christ’s message of salvation.
Speak – As the Spirit of God gives you the reply of the tongue or pen
Chapter 8 emphasizes the importance of Spirit-led communication for Christians. It highlights the necessity of listening before speaking, avoiding flesh-driven speech that can harm others. The author reflects on personal experiences and the value of silence, suggesting that thoughtful prayer and reflection can foster healthier interactions, especially in social media contexts.
Speak – When you are not Reacting
Chapter 6 emphasizes the importance of mindful communication, urging individuals to distinguish between reacting and responding. Prompted by James 1:19-20, it discusses how emotional reactions can lead to misunderstandings and divisions, advocating for a measured approach to speaking, guided by the Holy Spirit, to foster unity and wisdom in conversations.